Anonymous whispered,

Should I just give up? Everytime I talk to her online I pretty much ask her out all the time "when are you free? when can I see you? best friends should go out more!" I feel sick inside my stomach. I've known her since forever. I hate this.

I’m sorry you feel this way. Friendships are a two way street. BOTH of you have to put effort into the relationship. Talk to her. Let her know exactly how you feel, tell her what you told me. Hopefully she understands and tries to make things better, if not then I suggest you do as you need to. and if you feel like you need to give up, then do just that. Sometimes friendships end, but you’ll always begin new ones. Head up, things always get worse before they get better.

-Daisy.

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camilahfalcao whispered,

Hi Daisy!How are you? I haven't come here for a long time and i miss it a lot! I guess i'm fine,just living for now

hello. 

I’m glad you’re doing fine. I hope things continue to go well for you. 

-Daisy,

Anonymous whispered,

daisy, my "best friend" kissed my ex today & idk what to do about it. i mean i don't really have any feelings for him anymore, but i still think it's messed up for her to do that when she promised me she didn't like him & she even said she would never kiss him. i trusted her & she betrayed me. what do you think i should do?

I don’t think your friend is a very good friend. Talk to her about it. If she doesn’t see a problem, then let her know there IS a problem. friends don’t betray you. 

-Daisy.

Everyone!

For some reason your messages aren’t showing up properly, as soon as I fix the problem I’ll be back to answering normally. I’m so sorry for the inconvenience!!

dudanfrc whispered,

Dear Daisy, i don't ever feel like i'm good enough. I had this terrible fight with my high school friends, and now i dont talk to any of them. I started college 3 moths ago, and i feel like i cant fit anywhere. I dont know, but the high school girls made me feel like i'm always the wrong one. Or maybe i really am the wrong one. Anyways, i feel terrible about myself most all the time. I don't know what to do anymore

Just be yourself. You’ll always be good enough if you’re honest with who you are. Don’t worry about fitting in, make your own group, be your own person. Life is too precious to worry about who likes you and who doesn’t. Be you, and you’ll be happy.

-Daisy.

deepblacksea whispered,

Dear Daisy, I'm stressing out alot with school work, it's not helping at all with my health, and they way I treat my body when I'm under such pressure. I do try to spread my work out during the week, but I still end up with a heap of things to do and very little time to do it in. I've had anxiety attacks and massive break downs in the past and I'm scared it's going to happen again. I've also never had anyone there to help me with it. If it's ok, you're ever so kind words might help me.

Maybe you should talk to your teachers. Let them know what goiIng on. Stress is bad for you and you need to stay healthy and happy. I feel that this is the only way if you’ve tried other methods. please relax and take long breaks. You need to be happy and in good health. I wish you the best.

f3r-ocious whispered,

Dear Daisy, i met this guy and he's really great. he's super nice, really attractive, and my type. we talk and i've gone to a few of his basket ball games. all of our friends are obsessed with getting us together. but whenever they see us together they freak out and i get all nervous and overwhelmed and just shy away from him. i dont know if i actually like him or not. he's a great guy... but i dont know...

I think you like him. You shouldn’t get nervous when your frietalk freak out. If you’re comfortable with him, then I think you shouldn’t think about it. Let your guard down and just be as you are with him.

Anonymous whispered,

Dear Daisy. I think your feature is great! but do you mean we'd all text you? It would seriously be helpful for some people, me included. but for privacy sake of some people, we should choose to give your our real names... or would you even save our numbers into your phone? i just think us having our own nicknames is a good idea.

Dear dear anon, yes, you could all text me whenever you like. As long as you have a name included with the text, I’ll save bee number.

fallenxxdusk whispered,

Dear Daisy, I'm in love with an old flame and my current love. My ex boyfriend broke up with me a year ago, and I was with him for 3 years. It's strange because those three years his love burned so brightly for me. I guess he got burned out and started dating someone a month later...I'm someone so similar to him, but I didn't intend on that. He too loves me dearly and would do anything to protect me. I'm so confused. I need your words of encouragement, please Daisy.

I wonder what happened. Loving someone the way you do doesn’t happen to many people, I know you feel confused, but I think that’s good. Confusion is a good feeling to have with an ex. Is he still with a new girl? Do you want him back? Talk to him about how you feel.

Anonymous whispered,

Dear Daisy, I've made a huuuge mistake. I said somethings to my best friend that I didn't mean at all, out of pure fear to lose her and frustration over getting some sort of reaction. I really hurt her, and I feel super hurt myself. I can't believe I did something like that to the person I love the most. I talked to her and apologized, but she hasn't forgiven me yet. I know I should give it time..but I feel so desperate and in pain..what can I do to lessen the load?

Just wait it out. Don’t beat yourself up, these things happen. Just be calm and wait for her feelings to clear out.

-Daisy.